Questions to ask your crush

Twenty questions to ask someone you like. Start with easy ones to break the ice, then find out how they think about dating and love.

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How did we actually first meet?

Easy openers that feel natural, whether you just met or have known each other for a while.

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Light questions about dating that tell you a lot about someone.

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Questions that go past small talk once you're both comfortable.

What's something about your life outside of how we know each other that I don't know much about?
What's something you're passionate about that doesn't come up much in conversation?
What's something you wish people asked you about more?
What's something about you that surprises people once they get to know you?
What's a place you grew up that shaped who you are?

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How they see relationships. Save these for when the conversation is already flowing.

What's a dating red flag you used to ignore but wouldn't anymore?
What's your honest take on the "situationship" phase of modern dating?
What's a relationship lesson you learned the hard way?
What's your take on being single versus being in a relationship right now?
What's a relationship pattern you've noticed in yourself that you're working on?

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