Romantic and Deep Questions
What's the difference between comfort and passion for you, and do you feel both with me?
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Deep questions to ask your partner
Twenty deep questions for the nights you want more than small talk. Take one at a time, give each other room to think, and don't rush to the next one.
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Deep questions to ask your significant other about love
What love feels like to each of you, and what still scares you about it.
- What's the difference between comfort and passion for you, and do you feel both with me?
- What's something about my love for you that you sometimes doubt, even briefly?
- What's a way I could love you better, if you're honest?
- What's a fear about the future of us that you've never said out loud?
- What's something you love about yourself, that loving me helped you see?
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Deep questions about your future
Kids, careers, timelines and dreams: the big topics worth talking through before they become decisions.
- What's a goal you have that you've never told me about in detail?
- Do you want kids, and if so, how many, honestly?
- What's your honest timeline for major life milestones, marriage, kids, moving?
- What's a fear you have about becoming a parent, if that's part of our future?
- What's a dream for our relationship you haven't said out loud yet?
More like these in the app: Our Future Together · 100 cards
Deep questions about trust and fears
Jealousy, loyalty and old relationships. Hard to ask, easier once it's said.
- What's something that makes you feel jealous, even if it's irrational?
- What's a boundary around flirting, even jokingly, with other people?
- How do you feel about me having close friends of the gender I'm attracted to?
- What's something that would genuinely hurt your trust if it happened?
- What's something about my past relationships that still bothers you a little?
More like these in the app: Jealousy and Boundaries · 100 cards
Deep questions for late at night
Soft questions for the end of the day, lights off, phones away.
- What's a worry you want to set down before we sleep?
- What's something you wish you'd said to me today but didn't?
- What's a fear you have that feels smaller once you say it out loud?
- What's a question about the future you've been sitting with?
- What's something you've been wanting to ask me but kept putting off?
More like these in the app: Questions Before Bed · 100 cards
Ideas for tonight
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