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Getting to know you questions

Twenty getting to know you questions for someone new: a new friend, a new neighbor, anyone you'd like to know better. Start easy, go deeper when it feels natural, and answer them yourself too.

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For Someone New

What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?

Fun get to know you questions

Easy openers about weekends, hobbies and what they're into right now.

  1. What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?
  2. What's something you're currently really into?
  3. What's a skill you have that most people don't know about?
  4. What's the most interesting thing that's happened to you this year?
  5. What's your favorite way to celebrate good news?

Good questions to ask someone to get to know them

Questions that show how someone sees the world, beyond what they do for work.

  1. What's something about your job or daily life that's different from what people assume?
  2. What's a book, show, or podcast that changed how you see something?
  3. What's a place you've traveled that changed your perspective?
  4. What's your favorite type of conversation to have?
  5. What's a place that feels most like home to you?

Deep questions to get to know someone

Values and the things people rarely share at first. Save these for when you're both comfortable.

  1. What's something about your upbringing that shaped your values?
  2. What's a value that's really important to you?
  3. What's something about you that most new people don't pick up on right away?
  4. What's something about the way you think that's different from most people?
  5. What's a lesson you've learned recently that stuck with you?

More like these in the app: For Someone New · 100 cards

Get to know me questions

Dreams and everyday joys. Answer one yourself first, then ask back.

  1. What would your perfect ordinary day look like?
  2. What activity pulls you in so much that you lose track of time?
  3. If money didn't matter, what would you want to spend most of your time doing?
  4. What would you add to your day if you suddenly had two free hours every day?
  5. What experience do you want to have at least once?

More like these in the app: My Dreams · 100 cards

Ideas for tonight

Tonight could be the evening you remember

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